How it works
AnonymousCrush answers exactly one question — do we both feel it? — and reveals nothing otherwise.
Verified identifiers
You register with your email and prove you control it. You can add more verified addresses later — matching only ever runs against identifiers whose ownership has been verified, so nobody can be matched through an address that isn't really theirs.
Private submission
You enter the exact email address of the person you like, with an optional private nickname only you can see. We store the target as a keyed one-way code — your entry is never public, never searchable, and never triggers any notification to them. We also never tell you whether that address belongs to a member.
Reciprocal matching
Silently, the service checks one thing: has that person independently entered one of your verified addresses? If not, nothing happens — your entry simply waits, then quietly expires. If yes, a single private match is created and you're both notified at the same time with a neutral message that reveals nothing on a lock screen.
Double consent
A detected match is only an invitation. Each of you privately accepts or declines within the response window, and neither of you can see the other's response until you have both accepted. Declining — or simply not responding — is never attributed to either person.
Field-level reveal
When you accept, you choose exactly what the other person may see: first name, full name, email, bio, and more — or nothing beyond "interested." Only fields you explicitly permit are ever shown, and you can adjust them later.
Messaging, only if you both allow it
The conversation stays locked until both of you separately allow messaging. Block, report, and unmatch are one tap away at all times.
One of these hearts could be yours.
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